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Learning To Love Yourself

Loving yourself is a difficult thing. Most people think about loving yourself despite your flaws, but we believe in loving yourself because of your flaws. Everyone is unique and deserves love. It’s time you start learning to give the love to yourself that you give to those around you. Upon first glance, you might not even realize that you aren’t loving yourself. This is what going through the motions can do to you. It’s time you put forth the effort to love yourself because true love can be life-changing. How can you learn to love yourself? Villa Tranquil Recovery is here to help. 

Start now

Wherever you are, start now. If you’re waiting for the perfect moment to stop using or to show yourself unconditional love, you’ll never stop using and you’ll never learn to love yourself. Waiting for a perfect moment is just an excuse you’re giving yourself to keep using and keep love from yourself. If you’re trying to love yourself, you need to start now. Disregard the awkwardness and dive right in. Set goals for yourself and exceed them. It takes time, but you will get to the point where you can love yourself fully.


Learning about different types of self-care is an important step in learning to love yourself. Taking care of not only your body but your mind is essential when trying to love yourself. Some self-care practices will stick out to you and others won’t. That’s okay. You don’t have to try them all. When one speaks to you, try it out. Pick one new thing to do each day. You’ll find something you truly love to do for yourself on your road to loving yourself. 

Set boundaries

Creating healthy boundaries with someone you love can be a difficult thing — this includes yourself! You must have boundaries set, not only with others but with yourself. They can be uncomfortable and awkward at times, but they are there so you can love and respect yourself. In setting boundaries, figure out what you value and need in your life so that you can acknowledge the next steps to take to preserve that thing you love. 

Keep working hard

You don’t get a day off from loving yourself. Of course, there may be days that are harder than other days to love yourself. This doesn’t mean you can slack off, however. Keep working on yourself even when it’s hard and you’re tired. You deserve the reward from loving yourself. It’s worth it. 

Villa Tranquil Recovery knows women have to take an extra step toward self-love. We want to help you. Call now at 214-799-3080 to learn more about our programs and how we can help you.